As a bit of encouragement, let me say that I met my first group of online players here — well, back on the old Google Plus group. I played with those guys for a while before morphing into a new group, also guys I met on G+. We played for several years before that group fell apart. And it was somewhat crushing for me. But a friend reminded me that if you don’t have players, new ones are just around the corner. And he was so right. So I started looking for players here on the Runehammer forums. I now have two core groups that I play with, and I am super lucky to have such great DMs and gamers in my life.
Some of it was luck, and some of it was because I got out of my comfort zone and started running games with strangers. And then I slowly started to meet folks who shared my same values. And then from there we were able to form a group of folks who truly enjoy playing together.
In the case of luck, I blind invited this guy named Joe to a new campaign I was starting up — I had seen his posts here and thought he seemed like a thoughtful dude, so I just asked him if he wanted to play. And now, after all this time, I count Joe as one of my closest friends.
So, it might take a little bit of work and a little bit of luck, but I truly believe a solid gaming group is right around the corner for you. You just have to stick with it a little. But do know that these forums are a great place to find like-minded folks if you’re willing to put yourself out there a little bit.